God's Will

Well, I can tell you that you can't find out about God's will, not even when His will is done. Our job is to try, and see if that works or not. This is what my spiritual father (duhovnic) told me.

About humbling your will, well, you can do that by practicing humility (smerenie).

Pray for directions (Show me, Lord, the path I'm going to walk on - Arată-mi, Doamne, calea pe care voi merge), and that His will be done (Facă-se, Doamne, voia Ta cu mine, după mare mila Ta).

I haven't researeched in the Holy Fathers, it's just my knowledge and my experience.

I got some guidance from my spiritual father, but not 100%, more like a relief (alinare). The only thing you must do is pray and trust God (not believe in Him, which I think you do, but trust Him).